before.
That child lived only a few days. As we were working through
our grief we had a few
experiences that I think were from her. I remember thinking
that the foxglove in our
garden was a symbol of her, because she had a heart defect
and foxglove is
medicinal for heart problems. The morning we learned we
were pregnant with our
second child I looked out the window and almost fell off my
feet, the foxglove was
blooming to beat the band. I had had no idea that it even
had buds.
All these experiences have made me want to know more.
Lately I have been trying to
learn actively rather than waiting for more hints. I have
been trying to look at my
dreams, trying to look at other states of consciousness,
trying to see how easy it might
be to talk with loved ones who have passed on. I tried to
talk to a friend recently, I
asked him his father's name in order to see if the contact
was genuine. I thought he
said a name, and when I checked, the name was right on. I
feel good about pursuing
these things from a proactive stance, learning what I can
for myself.